Am I Wrong to feel this way or maybe I’m just selfish/spoiled?
Question by M.J. Stoner: Am I Wrong to feel this way or maybe I’m just selfish/spoiled?
To make a long story short I took a trip to Denver Colorado last week & I had been in my hotel room after 2 hours maybe when I developed diarrhea which later turned into vomiting & low grade fever. I was no more stressed than usual & it wasn’t food poisoning. I ended up spending 4 days vacation in bed with the first 2 days with the can by my bed.
Now I’m back & I didn’t ge to do a damn thing & I’m raving mad. Maybe i’m being manipulative or just acting out & maybe what I feel is perfectly normal I don’t know.
I want to go to the beachm or go to a water park & still have fun with what’s left of summer. If i’m lucky I can go back to Denver in OCT. 08 but that’s a LONG time away.
Am I wrong for feeling like I deserve some consolation prize in a sense for getting sick ? Don’t answer if you’re going to be a donkey’s rear end or a female dog.
I didn’t stay home btw: I went but I got sick 2 hours after checking into my hotel room. It’s NOT fair & I’m never going to get to go anywhere do anything or have fun ever again. My life is over.
Best answer:
Answer by BlackLabLover
No you’re not selfish or spoiled, I’d be feeling the same exact way. Maybe this weekend you should go out and have an all you weekend – go out there and do whatever you want!
Glad to hear you’re feeling better!
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Sometimes, we get being sick at a wrong timing and it did happen to you, we are sorry for that. However you still have the time to make up and enjoy your summer vacation and go relax and cut down the stress and have fun…
i’d be bloody pissed off if i paid for a vacation and couldnt do anything! my god its just like going to a water theme park to find its winter up there and too cold to go! you’re right to feel this way. are you still sick now?
You have a right to feel cheated because you didn’t get to enjoy your vacation but at the same time your parents may take the way you are acting as if you are being ungrateful. You are not wrong to want to have fun but within limits. If they spent a lot of money going to CO then they may not be able to take you to the waterpark or sixflags. Next time you get sick ask to go to the hospital instead of staying home for the whole trip. The 4 hours in the er would have helped you to have a blast for the remaining 3. Keep your head up and good luck.
U have to decide ur own class.
Granted it was horrible timing, and you should feel upset that you didn’t get enjoy yourself. But holding onto your negative feelings about the situation, is more than likely going to ruin any good times you have in the future. If you feel better, go out and have fun.
And if you can manage it, try to find some humor in the freaky ways the universe works.