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Q&A: Are my friends trying to ruin my marriage and drive me away from my fiance? Advice?

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Question by Chloe: Are my friends trying to ruin my marriage and drive me away from my fiance? Advice?
Im due to get married next year to the man of my dreams, he is from Brazil but lives mostly in Europe as that is where is job has him based. I am 25 and my fiance is 2yrs older than me, i was born in Las Vegas but spent most of my time in Pennsylvania when my parents divorced when i was 17yrs old, that’s where i met the greatest friends i could have ever dreamed of. I met my fiance in Vegas 4 years ago when i was staying with my dad and we were insepratable he proposed to me last summer, i never thought i could be so in love with someone as i am with him i love him like crazy. We live together when he is here but his job and everything is in Madrid, i have been there with him a lot but i can only stay for at least 3 months because of my job but he wants me to move over there with him as he always tells me he can support me. When we are together he is so romantic and not a day goes by that he doesn’t tell me that he loves me, he will cook for me, surprises me with vacations etc and makes me feel like im all that matters to me, he always tells me he loves seeing me smile. Some of my friends say he is taking me away because i am thinking about moving to Madrid to be with him permanently, apparently i wont suit Madrid and his lifestyle or family, thing is his family in Brazil love me, its like they keep trying to find something bad to say. He wanted to get married this summer but i begged him for us to hold off until next summer(although no date is set) as we couldn’t decide were we wanted our wedding so far my family,his family and both our friends have all said Brazil,Nevada and Pennsylvania. My fiance and i had a huge argument last month when he told me i was letting everyone tell me what to do with our wedding and he would rather a simple small just me and him wedding in Madrid and have it be just about us and no one else. Is he right am i letting people walk all over me. Right now im strongly thinking about getting married like my fiance said and just being happy, its all i want. Between my friends rubs and everything my head is all over the place. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.

Best answer:

Answer by Chrissy
It almost feels like it’s too good to be true. Not sure what your friends are doing wrong besides giving you there own opinion (even though they need to let you make your own mistakes). Though I would like to give you some advise myself if your ok with it. You should live with him for at least a year straight before you find if it’s all that it’s cracked up to be.

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Are my friends trying to ruin my marriage and drive me away from my fiance? Advice?

Question by Chloe: Are my friends trying to ruin my marriage and drive me away from my fiance? Advice?
Im due to get married next year to the man of my dreams, he is from Brazil but lives mostly in Europe as that is where is job has him based. I am 25 and my fiance is 2yrs older than me, i was born in Las Vegas but spent most of my time in Pennsylvania when my parents divorced when i was 17yrs old, that’s where i met the greatest friends i could have ever dreamed of. I met my fiance in Vegas 4 years ago when i was staying with my dad and we were insepratable he proposed to me last summer, i never thought i could be so in love with someone as i am with him i love him like crazy. We live together when he is here but his job and everything is in Madrid, i have been there with him a lot but i can only stay for at least 3 months because of my job but he wants me to move over there with him as he always tells me he can support me. When we are together he is so romantic and not a day goes by that he doesn’t tell me that he loves me, he will cook for me, surprises me with vacations etc and makes me feel like im all that matters to me, he always tells me he loves seeing me smile. Some of my friends say he is taking me away because i am thinking about moving to Madrid to be with him permanently, apparently i wont suit Madrid and his lifestyle or family, thing is his family in Brazil love me, its like they keep trying to find something bad to say. He wanted to get married this summer but i begged him for us to hold off until next summer(although no date is set) as we couldn’t decide were we wanted our wedding so far my family,his family and both our friends have all said Brazil,Nevada and Pennsylvania. My fiance and i had a huge argument last month when he told me i was letting everyone tell me what to do with our wedding and he would rather a simple small just me and him wedding in Madrid and have it be just about us and no one else. Is he right am i letting people walk all over me. Right now im strongly thinking about getting married like my fiance said and just being happy, its all i want. Between my friends rubs and everything my head is all over the place. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.

Best answer:

Answer by Jeklo
All that matters is how you and your fiance feel. This is the man you want to spend the rest of your life with and to hell with any of your so called friends who want to take that away from you. You do what makes you happy…period. Yes, friends are great to have (especially after marriage as you need friends also) and a true friend will always tell you truth but if they are not going to support your decision when its ultimately yours to make and constantly tell you what they think you should be doing then they are not really supporting your relationship with your fiance at all. That doesn’t sound like a good friendship to me. They should be happy for you.

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